Analyze the seven wonderful realms in sex
Even a partner who is already happy can be happier, because most of them still lack deep communication with each other, and true intimacy is very subtle.
Avoiding contradictions, satisfying the superficial happiness, and making no effort on the realm that needs to be improved is relatively easy, but it is vulnerable.
銆€銆€Experts believe that true love is divided into seven realms. Love Realm 1: Lust You may think that as long as the two people are in the same personality, the relationship will naturally last for a long time.
But don’t forget that personality is attached to the body, and the body is the (and interesting) tool that connects you to the other half.
Sexual love is a combination of gender relations, and it is necessary to give full play to its role.
If the sexual life is not harmonious, there must be a gap between the two that cannot be crossed.
銆€銆€A healthy sex life not only brings sensory pleasure, but also improves the quality of life (in a broad sense).
When a pair of partners who were suffering from “sexual drought” received treatment, they found that they often worked hard for trivial things, and then they were annoyed.
They accepted the advice of the experts and began to relive the closeness of the flesh, becoming more tolerant and more loving.
銆€銆€Although you may be making love every day, your passions are not as fanatical as when you first fell in love.
The additive that the two people are passionate about is the love posture that does not fall.
When both of them are meditation, step by step, step by step, and step by step, the way of making love has closed the old way, which seems to be routine and tedious.
銆€銆€As long as you are not on the plane, you can find out more about the sex posture that both people feel comfortable with.
The implantation of the “falling” of the bed makes the real happiness not come when the climax comes.
The method of activating eroticism is actually simple and effective. Just use your imagination and creativity, rekindle the spark of sex, throw away the old routine, and boldly experiment with new ways.
Don’t worry about the awkward “run-in period”, dare to dare to do it.
The moment you are most excited, you must tell him.
銆€銆€Geli, 29, sales director, she and her boyfriend learned to exchange their feelings on their own bed in an open and honest manner. “After every love, we have to discuss it, unless I am particularly excited, I amWhat to do will make him reach a climax and so on.
This has kept our sexual life energetic, and has never been low tide, and has continued to reach a new level of renewal.
“The realm of love two: the spirit of any love contains the factors of sincerity, should be the harmonious development of the spirit and the body.
Although the meaning of a lover has gone far beyond friendship, you can still be friends with him and appreciate each other.
銆€銆€Platonic spiritual love is pure and beautiful, and it is the glue that maintains all other realms.
When you start to get bored with Romantik, when your energy has been restored by passion, you can only rely on trust and friendship to keep the relationship going.
銆€銆€Explore your friendship, first think about how you get along when you are not in bed.
On the weekend afternoon, you got the flu, coughing, coughing and sneezing. Don’t say anything else, it’s impossible to connect a kiss. They just sit on the sofa and watch the cartoons broadcast several times. How loud are you crying?He needs his main axis to lean on, but he is not nearby; when he tells you all the dissatisfaction at work, you become very impatient. These all indicate that your relationship is lower than the normal state of your friend’s realm.
銆€銆€Feifei, 30, lawyer, “I am very harmonious with my boyfriend. At that time, we were all law students, and we could understand each other sensibly.
But then we went out for a weekend and found that the two were not speculative, very embarrassing.
“Friends suggested that Fifi take the initiative to ask some questions about private life, similar: “What is your most desirable weekend?
“Who is your best playmate in childhood?”
Why do you like him the most?
“Trying to create a sexual premise while creating a friendly atmosphere, and then talking about some of the topics that lovers care about is critical.
Feifei took the advice of a friend. “Now I know more about his background and emotional experience, and his opinion is more objective.
Sharing the bits and pieces of life with him has become my happiest moment, because we have not only regarded each other as a romantic lover, but also the most intimate friend.
“Love Realm III: Romance When did the two of you spend the last time together – is the one that most makes you suffer from Pang Ruo, the most ecstasy?”
If you think about this issue after 30 seconds, it should light up the “passion” red light to you.
銆€銆€Excessive sensational contempt does not help to maintain long-term relationships, but moderate romance is a love flavoring and preservative that allows lovers to enjoy the vitality of love.
銆€銆€Li Ye, 28, translated, “Every year, my husband will make a weekend travel plan. He has been keeping secrets forever. I never knew where he was going to take me, but every time he picked up, he showed deep love for me.And considerate, it is the annual surprise that makes our marriage full of fresh and exciting feelings.
To increase the romantic sentiment, first ask yourself (rather than those who are good-loving lover cards). What it means to love and romance, listening to your own voice is as important as listening to others.If your understanding of romance is a kind of plain and faint, don’t ask for earth-shattering, don’t expect the flower shop to have the biggest bunch of Valentine’s Day roses in history, then tell him, he will satisfy your romantic requirements, no longer need toIt’s hard to wonder if you like carnations or roses, whether it’s red or yellow.
銆€銆€The realm of love four: the actual actual love?
It sounds a bit contradictory.
But think about your real life – when you talk to your boyfriend about buying a new Buick, or designing a Hawaii travel plan, or deciding to watch these channels, if the two don’t coincide, you will sigh between you.Tacit understanding.
銆€銆€If the relationship between the two sexes is working properly in this realm, the daily division will be resolved before the upgrade.
Life is such a reality, to allow a different understanding of the way of life, therefore, it is important to learn to respect each other and to avoid disadvantages.
銆€銆€Yangyang, 25 years old, model, her love affair has experienced the death of the actual life after the death, “I and my ex-boyfriend often do a little bit of things happen, such as when the kettle is half full, can you open?”
The endless revolution has consumed all our tenderness and romance.
“The realm of love belongs to one of the most difficult states to coordinate, but it is easy to diagnose.
When you deal with it alone, when you cope with it, is it difficult to deal with it?
If the answer is yes, you should work hard on this interface.
銆€銆€First of all, don’t worry about why you can’t agree on everything, or try to understand why you are divided.
First, learn to compromise.
An Qi, 29 years old, advertising planning, the past and her boyfriend A Wei have to do everything for everything, including the most common 鑾?鍔?鍔?( ( ( 10 10 10 10 10 10 10 10 10 10 10 10 10 10 10 10 10 10 10 10 10 10 10Shaanxi?
Minutes have to take a look.
He always likes to put blunt logic on everything, and I like to act intuitively.
Later, we discovered that we only had different ways of thinking, and things soon began to turn.
I must study the map carefully before leaving the house. He also believes that I will make a correct judgment. We have reconciled quite well.
“The Realm of Love 5: The philosophical connection between philosophy and gender is to be a pair of lovers. You should share or at least think of each other’s values, be they religious beliefs, political views, outlooks on life, and worldviews.”
If there is a fault here, you will have a sense of inner emptiness.
銆€銆€If you love for a long time, it is necessary to know the philosophy of love.
If you don’t face this problem and can’t discuss it in depth, the assessment of the two will inevitably lead to conflicts, and may eventually split up.
For example, religious beliefs and the need for children are the two issues that most need to reach consensus.
Ji Ji, 30 years old, fashion designer, “We didn’t discuss the child’s problem before we got married, but he hopes that a child will be a year after marriage. I want to improve my career first. I haven’t done it yet.Preparation, he thinks that this is a personal contempt and insult to him. The endless gradual proof that our views on the future are completely different, so I decided to end this painful marriage.
“Philosophical issues are not inscrutable, but they can still be communicated. You can exchange life philosophy and worldview with him frankly. You don’t have to stick to yourself from the fragmented personality.”
Ning Yue, 29 years old, computer programmer, “I finally found the most ideal husband in my heart, but he is a Christian, and I believe in Buddha. After a few months, we open our hearts and affect our respective spiritual realms.The factors that are found do not have much to do with religious beliefs. It is important to choose a lifestyle lifestyle.
Since our basic views have been agreed, then the decision to celebrate Christmas or other festivals is not a problem.
“The Realm of Love 6: The intellectual connection between the intellectuals and the sexes does not mean that you must follow his fascination with World War II novels and car rally, but learn to analyze why he is so fascinated, and then cultivate some common hobbies to provide you with 50 years of experience in the future.Enough talk.
銆€銆€Ouyang, 32, psychologist, “I have no relationship with my boyfriend’s career. He is engaged in the financial industry. I usually pay attention to him about some business and market knowledge. He is also very interested in my work, otherwise,We can only have the dog in the retina all day long.
“If you want to test the compatibility of intelligence between you, you can ask him some questions that are more slack and more flexible, such as “What do you think about horror movies?”
“It is best not to talk about things,” what do you think of “The Silent Lamb”?
“Try to set aside room to expand the other’s interests; or carefully choose a topic that has never been explored before, and use it as a rare and romantic opportunity to build a deeper intellectual connection.”
銆€銆€Getting into the other person’s “brain” to explore may lead to a fierce transformation, and the transformation is precisely a wonderful way to strengthen the connection. One of the real intimacy distortions is to see if you are comfortable with the disagreement between the two.
Remember, the true meaning of the two people’s ideological resonance is to understand and respect each other’s views, not their identity.
銆€銆€The Realm of Love 7: The permanent pursuit of permanence and eternality is the guarantee of maintaining love.
Without it, the inner insecurity will drive you crazy, and you will always worry that your next lip war will be the last time, worrying that someone wakes up in the morning, he has escaped.
銆€銆€Persistence will motivate you to improve other realms of love, because you will be observant and red, and hopefully everything will be perfect.
銆€銆€Those who have been living for a lifetime agree that gender relations cannot be perfect.
Lin Yuan, 80 years old, “There are always times when it is not that he just went to the room, otherwise the dinner was going well, and I suddenly went away.
It must be admitted that life is not always only sunshine and happiness. In any case, it is a special pleasure to return to the two after the Rose War.The benefit of this fault in the realm is that two people or one of them always avoid avoiding the future and never make long-term romantic plans.
To test if you have a crisis in this area, you can ask yourself the following questions: Do you know his dreams and ambitions?
Will he put your common interests above his personal interests?
(Do you also do this yourself?) The relationship between the two is intimate, and you can be justified. “We will definitely be old!”
“But to achieve such a fit, you must strengthen communication and not hide and conceal your feelings.”
This realm of love can test people the most, love on the road?
Time is the only best witness. It is incapable of rushing, and you can’t start the future with a few minutes of heat.
Learn to trust him, talk to him, respect each other’s personality, and only then, a beautiful tomorrow will come.