Give a little time to be happy
Many people in life are always pushing away from things that can bring them happiness, because these things are never within their consideration, not in their schedules, or they don’t even know that these can bring himHappy things, or they are rigid enough to jump out of established living routines.
銆€銆€One day, I couldn’t help but think of the night before the destruction of the Titanic. The women were still giving up the dessert after eating to keep the slim figure.
Since then, I have tried to make myself more flexible in my life.
銆€銆€How many housewives were there, what they had taken out of the refrigerator, and the husband suddenly went out to dinner, so she finally gave up eating at home?
銆€銆€How many times have your children come over and want to talk to you, but you are watching the TV quiz show with enthusiasm, so he has to stop someone from spending a lonely childhood?
銆€銆€I have counted how many times I have called my sister and said, “How about going out for lunch after half an hour?
“She will always stutter,” I can’t go.
My clothes are hanging outside.
My hair should be washed too.
I hope that I can know your arrangement yesterday, or I will not have breakfast so late today.
And it seems that it is going to rain.
“My personal favorite is her sentence: “Know that today is Monday.
“She died a few years ago.
We did not have lunch together until she died.
銆€銆€Because we have filled up so many trivial and unimportant things in our lives, we are actually giving time to the things that are causing us headaches, and we are squeezing out the time that is originally happy.
銆€銆€We always think this way – when our children learn to go to the bathroom, we will go back to visit our grandparents; when we replace the old carpet in the living room, we will go for a leisure; wait for the other twoThe children are all finished college, we will go to a honeymoon again. The transformation of life is gradually getting older and slowly accelerating.
The days go by, and the promises we put into ourselves are getting more and more.
Every morning we wake up and express our life as a routine prayer. “How will I be.”
“How do I plan?”
“And “I will do it someday, when everything is stable.”
“I have a friend who “just fights for the day”. Anyone calls her. She always has time to take risks and travel with friends.
She is also happy to accept new things and new ideas.
Her enthusiasm for life is very infectious. You only have to talk to her for five minutes, and will be willing to change your feet into a pair of pulleys, simply go to the bungee without taking the elevator.
銆€銆€I haven’t touched the ice cream for my lips for ten years.
In fact, I love ice cream very much, but when I have a spoonful of scoop, I can directly affect my delicate stomach and damage my digestive function.
So, I chose to give up.
A few days ago, I finally stopped to buy a sandwich sandwich ice cream.
At that time, I felt that even if my car hit the iceberg on the way home, I died without regret.
銆€銆€So, from now on, please continue to enjoy your life and do what you 鈥渢hink鈥? not what you 鈥渟hould鈥?do.
If you will die soon, and you can only make one more call, then who will you call and say?
Thinking about those, why are you waiting now?
銆€銆€Have you ever watched the children playing on the carousel?
Have you heard the sound of the raindrops falling?
Have you followed the butterfly that flutters?
Are you staring at the afterglow of the sunset?
Are you busy every day?
When you ask, “How are you?”
“Can you hear the answer?銆€銆€When the day is over, do you still have the housework to do tomorrow in your head?
When the child asks a certain wish, do you send him a “this thing we will do tomorrow”, but ignore his feelings in a hurry?
Have you ever lost contact with a good friend and let a sincere friendship regretfully draw a rest?
Why don’t you try to make a phone call with a greeting?
銆€銆€When you worry about it and spend your day in a hurry, this day is like a gift that is not open to you, just thrown away.
Life is not a race.
It may be appropriate to slow down.
Listen to the movement of this life before the end of the song of life.